Not until last Sunday that was father's day for Christians, I never knew that Prophet Elijah also parted water for people to pass. My knowledge of how people either walked on water or parted water was that of Moses who in the old Testament of the Bible,  miraculously divided the red sea for the Children of Israel to walk through and Jesus who walked on water and commanded Peter his disciple to do same.

With these knew knowledge, i am now aware that, when it comes to Biblical water miracle, Jesus walked on water, Moses divided the red sea and Elijah parted the water.  Do you have any other one to tell me? I want to learn. These were great miracles of old to show that God is a great God.

The Bible records have shown that these miracles did not happen at regular intervals, it only happened at when there was need for God to show his mercies and supernatural power for faith building amongst the people of those days.

While water miracle, that is, either walking on water or parting the water, was not a daily occurrence in the Bible days, it has become a daily thing in Nigeria. In Nigeria, most communities have their red seas where they divide and walk daily, we have our waters where we part and walk daily. What is different from the Biblical miracle of walking on water or parting water for people to pass, and that of Nigeria, is that, in the Bible, prayers were sometimes offered before such miracles will take place, but in our own case in Nigeria, we no longer pray before we do it for the wisdom to walk or part water has become common sense to us.

If you want to see these miraculous works of God in Nigeria, go to Lagos or Bayelsa, people no longer just walk or part water, they now live on top of water, what a miracle. In Lagos, most residents  have mastered skills in walking and parting water daily as they go out and come in as part of their daily activities. If you tell them about walking on water as a miracle, you may be looked at, as coming from the moon.

In the abundance of resources where bridges can be built, drainages and roads constructed, the Ukwa Ibom-Efik Eburutu people in Odukpani Local Government Area of Cross River State; residents in most part of Lagos, Bayelsa, Aba in Abia State, and so many places in Nigeria have continued to rely on the mercies of God's miracle of either walking on water or parting water daily before they can go out and come in.

Who will help them stop these miracle and let them rest? What they just need are bridges, drainages and good roads and Nigeria has the money to do just that.

Have you been walking on water? mention your area.

Ekpenyong Isaiah,
Commander, Infantry Pen Battallion
isacool4good@yahoo.com

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DO YOU WANT TO DIE?

To the strong, suicide is not an option. To the weak, it is. When you take your life, you do not take away pains, you create more pains in the life of those who care for you. Your father, your mother, your sisters and brothers and other love ones. Think of what it is to carry a baby for nine months in the womb by a woman, think of what it is to pass through child labour by a woman, think of what it is to raise a child from birth to the age you are. As a boy, why take your life because a girl abandoned you? As a girl, why take your life because a boy abandoned you? What are the challenges that are so depressing that makes you forget tomorrow could be better? Do you know how water got inside coconut?

Champions do not quit and quiters can never be champions. It is those who persevere to win that have stories to tell. Why will you allow people to tell your story on how you could not win. Some will even tell lies about you at death.

Nigerian Youths, enough is enough.

Do not drink Snipper, drink Malt? Do not use the rope on your neck, use your robe for God's glory.

There is no problem that has no end, do not allow your death to be the end of a problem that may have expired if you had endured little longer.

You could be the next big thing if you endure little longer.

Ekpenyong Isaiah,
Commander, Infantry Pen Battallion
isacool4good@yahoo.com

Job Osazuwa

Dr. Betta Edu, who is the Special Adviser to the Governor of Cross River State on Community Health, Director-General and CEO of Cross River State Primary Health Care Development Agency (CRSPHCDA) and the National Vice President of the forum of CEOs of all Primary health Care Agency and Boards in Nigeria, has revealed why Governor Ben Ayade appointed her to serve under him.

Edu is described by many people who know her as a renowned medical practitioner, who discharges her duties with passion and diligence. Having bagged MD. MBBCH, MSc in Public Health in London; Cert. Public Health (Harvard), LPA; FHNR, FICA, ADV.UHC (World Health Organisation (WHO), she is seen as a round peg in a round hole in the state’s Ministry of Health.
In this interview with the reporter, she speaks on her motivations, appointment, achievements and fulfilment as a public servant.

How did you find yourself in Cross river State Government?

Governor Ayade, on assumption of office, searched for committed young persons who can deliver on his lofty goals and vision for the state. By God’s grace he and his dear wife, Dr. Linda Ayade, who happens to be a practising medical doctor, chose me to lead the Primary Health Care revolution in Cross River. I am the pioneer Director-General of the Primary Health Care Agency, meaning that I started the agency from the foundation. I set out to change the rhetoric of health care delivery in the state. It has been a life-changing and learning experience for me.

What is your goal in serving in Ayade’s administration?

My goal is to help Nigeria and Cross River State achieve universal health coverage through the revitalisation of primary health care and health insurance. Building an agency from the foundation was a tough task which needed to be done in order for the services to be better coordinated and improved while communities benefit more from the health sector.
We set out to reduce maternal and child mortality in health facilities and we have done so by 23 per cent. Human Immune Virus (HIV) prevalence has dropped from 6.6 per cent to 1.9 per cent in the state. we set out to improve immunisation coverage, nutrition, family planning and several other primary health services, which have been significantly achieved.
By the approval of a committed the governor who understands the need to invest in health care, we have boosted our human resources with the employment of 1, 000 health workers. Before now health facilities used to be dark at night and women delivered with bush lamps. But today, we have introduced over 190 solar lightings in our health facilities. We have improved working environments and quality of service through the renovation and equipping of over 100 Primary health facilities.
We introduced portable ultrasound to help identify complications in pregnant women and manage appropriately. I am happy that I accepted the call to serve under Ayade.
And with the help of God and the commitment of the “talk and do” governor and his wife, Dr Linda Ayade, residents of the state are better for it. We wanted to touch more lives positively and we have achieved a lot by improving their health status.
Sometimes I wonder what the health sector would have become today without Ayade and his dear wife’s intervention. Having the vision of creating an agency that has today changed the entire health sector in the state is a great joy for me.

How has your position in the health sector affected the common man on the street?
His Excellency, as usual, showcases his love and desire to see that the residents of the state, especially those in rural and hard-to -reach areas live a-disease-free life through the creation of CRSPHCDA. Creating the agency was one step, but the governor ensured that he entrusted it in the hands of a very young woman, and by giving her all the necessary support to build the agency. For a lady with no previous experience in public service at the state level to have been handed over the responsibility of laying the foundation for the agency shows his confidence in me. The governor’s decision is rare and only a few leaders in Nigeria could do such in Nigeria. This shows how much trust and confidence Sen. Ayade has in Nigerian youths as the leaders of today. To the glory of God CRSPHCDA has today become the face of Cross River as far as quality health care delivery is concerned.

Has there been any major hurdle faced in your public office?

With great challenges faced from getting stakeholders at all levels to agree that the new baby should be born, and getting the Legislature to give its full backing through an appropriate legislation, I faced several pushbacks, which I managed to surmount. A lot of people called the governor at several points to discourage him yet he insisted that “nothing is cast on a stone let her try”. But today, the agency has been taken to a greater height, recording tremendous achievements within a short period of time.

How far will you say you have fared so far?

Through the creation of the agency, primary health centres (PHCs) have today reduced maternal and child mortality rate thereby improving child survival as confirmed by UNICEF, USAID, Pathfinder International and others. The centres have provided massive employment of health workers in Cross River strictly on merit to offer quality services at the agency. There have been massive removals of ghost workers from the payroll, thereby saving the government several millions.
With me at the helm of affairs, doctors have now been introduced to PHCs through government payroll. There is an improved technology in PHC as midwives, Community health extension workers now use ultrasound scan for pregnant women in rural areas among other innovations. The provision of tricycle ambulances for remote communities has boosted referrals so that people are not left to die in the villages. Frontline health workers have improved surveillance skills and can now respond to disease outbreak speedily using motorcycles and telephones as supported by WHO.

The beauty of everything is that I am always present at different locations monitor work progress.
I have never failed to remind my team that hard work and professionalism, irrespective of the limited resources, should be our driving force. No wonder that communities through ward development committees can now participate fully in health decisions for their people as well as hold health workers accountable. In a short period and through a collective responsibility, there is an effective regulation of traditional birth attendant activities. This is geared towards reducing maternal mortality. Thank God the state has equipped all the facilities with modern equipment, thereby making them to function efficiently. And the moribund drug revolving fund has been revitalized in several PHCs where drugs are now available.

Another support that must be mentioned is from the wife of the governor, Linda, a medical doctor who previously practising in the United Kingdom (UK). She has through her non-governmental organisation (NGO), Mediatrix Development Foundation supported massive health outreaches in various communities and Local Government Areas (LGAs), where access to health care is a major problem. At least, over 100, 000 Cross River residents have benefited directly from free surgeries and medical care in a short period of time across the state.

I am using this medium once again, to express my deep appreciation to Gov. Ayade and his wife for believing so much in me. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to showcase my love and passion for mankind towards achieving a disease-free state. I am particularly grateful for the platform that has enabled me to prove to Cross River people and the world at large that obviously with dedication, passion, hard work and commitment something can definitely come out of nothing.

Shally Davies

By Shally Davies

Why do happiness last for only a short while? Why do people fall over and over again? and get hurt over again? Why do we fall for the wrong person ? So destiny can lead us to the right one.. Feelings change but love never change. All I can say keep falling and also keep rising up, because tour destined to meet your better half one day, words from the heart shallydavies
99% of people we interact with daily are just our acquaintance, not our friends. A friend is someone who always listens to you, no matter the time, who you can cry on their shoulders, who knows your deepest secret and will never snitch. A friend is your greatest companion who sticks with you  better than a brother, someone who can tell if your sad or happy
You can tell your a acquaintance about your problems, but that person doesn't really care!. A friend is someone who advices you and keep you from taking the wrong decision.

They say“ A friend in need is a friend indeed but how many so call friends will you ask for something and they will give you, they will be like seriously I don't have, but there is something more important than you they're going to use   the money for...
A true friend will sacrifice for you, even till their last penny or support..
Choose your friends wisely

By Allan Ahimbisibwe

After graduating, I was lucky to get a job in a bank earning 500k a month, at first I thought this was much money but after working for over 7months and I had no achievement, not even a single saving, I made a hard decision to resign.
I decided to think like I had no degree, I actually forgot that I had even gone to makerere with a bachelor’s in statistics
I went back to my mothers home and that’s how my story of entrepreneurship started without capital.

–I will stop here with my story, to be continued–

Things have changed so we must change too, Universities in the 70s used to produce 1000 graduates each year and they would get jobs even before finishing, but now each year we graduate more than 100,000 from over 30 universities and 100 institutes.
Most of the Educated people in Africa are poor not because they are dense but the way they see things just doesn’t apply to the real world.

The biggest excuse for getting paid such low amounts of money and having to sit and work for another person for 30 days is THE DEGREE

This has made most of the degree holders very poor and will die that way most likely.
A degree holder does not know how to generate money even from the simplest thing unless that money is generated for the employer. He is so dependent on the salary that he can do anything to get a job but will not think of starting a business of his own to employ others not even operate a chapati Business where he can make 30k a day.
A degree holder is not prepared to start a company and grow it in 2 to 3 years but will spend 4 years searching for a job and works for 30years pushing another person’s dream.

A degree holder is so eager to get out of this country and work in another country than spend time to develop his own country by creating solutions and innovations.
A degree holder in Uganda will watch movies and music on his laptop all the time but never to write a book or research about business opportunities using the same laptop and make money.
They spend much on airtime and data calling and chatting with friends about football, music, outings, but never for business.

A degree holder will blame the government for lack of jobs even when he was on government bursary for him to have his degree.

Why are the degree holders poor?

Because they have decided to pride themselves in a degree and failed to think better than a man who does not have even a certificate to his name.
If you want to progress, throw away that degree and start thinking better than someone without a degree. Have an open mind and start anything that can make you money.
Be prepared to get your hands dirty and work like an ox for your business.
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Allan Ahimbisibwe (Plant Dr) is a former Statistician now an agronomist and proud farmer. He is also the Founder/CEO Spark Agron -Initiatives Ltd

Steve Jobs

Do u know Steve Jobs
CEO and maker of iPad...iPhone etc

He died a billionaire
And here are his last words

On the sick bed

Steve Jobs’ Last Words -

I reached the pinnacle of success in the business world.
In others’ eyes, my life is an epitome of success.

However, aside from work, I have little joy. In the end, wealth is only a fact of life that I am accustomed to.

At this moment, lying on the sick bed and recalling my whole life, I realize that all the recognition and wealth that I took so much pride in, have paled and become meaningless in the face of impending death.

In the darkness, I look at the green lights from the life supporting machines and hear the humming mechanical sounds, I can feel the breath of god of death drawing closer…

Now I know, when we have accumulated sufficient wealth to last our lifetime, we should pursue other matters that are unrelated to wealth…
Should be something that is more important:

Perhaps relationships, perhaps art, perhaps a dream from younger days ...
Non-stop pursuing of wealth will only turn a person into a twisted being, just like me.

God gave us the senses to let us feel the love in everyone’s heart, not the illusions brought about by wealth.

The wealth I have won in my life I cannot bring with me.
What I can bring is only the memories precipitated by love.
That’s the true riches which will follow you, accompany you, giving you strength and light to go on.

Love can travel a thousand miles. Life has no limit. Go where you want to go. Reach the height you want to reach. It is all in your heart and in your hands.
What is the most expensive bed in the world? - "Sick bed" …

You can employ someone to drive the car for you, make money for you but you cannot have someone to bear the sickness for you.
Material things lost can be found. But there is one thing that can never be found when it is lost – "Life".

When a person goes into the operating room, he will realize that there is one book that he has yet to finish reading – "Book of Healthy Life".

Whichever stage in life we are at right now, with time, we will face the day when the curtain comes down.

Treasure Love for your family, love for your spouse, love for your friends...

Treat yourself well. Cherish others.

As we grow older, and hence wiser, we slowly realize that wearing a $300. or $30.00 watch - - -  - - - - they both tell the same time...
Whether we carry a $300 or $30.00 wallet/handbag - - - - - - - the amount of money inside is the same;

Whether we drink a bottle of $300 or $10 wine - - - - - - - - - - - -  the hangover is the same;

Whether the house we live in is 300 or 3000 sq. ft. - - - - - - - -  loneliness is the same.

You will realize, your true inner happiness does not come from the material things of this world.

Whether you fly first or economy class, if the plane goes down - - - - - - --you go down with it...
Therefore..I hope you realize, when you have mates, buddies and old friends, brothers and sisters, who you chat with, laugh with, talk with, have sing songs with, talk about north-south-east-west or heaven &
earth, .... That is true happiness!!

Five Undeniable Facts of Life :
1. Don't educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be Happy. So when they grow up they will know the value of things not the price.

2. Best awarded words in London ... "Eat your food as your medicines. Otherwise you have to eat medicines as your food."

3. The One who loves you will never leave you for another because even if there are 100 reasons to give up he or she will find one reason to hold on.

4. There is a big difference between a human being and being human.
Only a few really understand it.

5. You are loved when you are born. You will be loved when you die.  In between, You have to manage!

NOTE: If you just want to Walk Fast, Walk Alone! But if you want to Walk Far, Walk Together!

Six Best Doctors in the World

1. Sunlight
2. Rest
3. Exercise
4. Diet
5. Self Confidence and
6. Friends

Maintain them in all stages of Life and enjoy healthy life.

Sent with Smiles, Affection and Love !!

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Ogar Sunday

Any material favour done to assist the needy triggered by the motive of charity is alms-giving. It is giving willingly, generously & even at our own expense to the poor and less privileged. Evidently, alms-giving implies much more than the transmission of some temporal commodity to the indigent. According to the creed of political economy every material deed rendered by man to benefit his needy brother is alms-giving. Likewise the creed of Christianity, which implies material services rendered to the poor for Christ sake. This is why the inspired psalmist said blessed is he that considers the poor and needy.

"Truly I tell you whatever you did not do for one of the least of these you did not do for me" Matt 25:45.
"Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them.  If you do you will have no reward from your father in heaven". Matt 6:2-4 made us to understand that we should not announce or display our generosity or goodness to others. Our Father who sees your charitable deeds in secret will reward you, for God loves a cheerful giver.

As we approach the end of this Lenten season, we are called to always help those around us: our next door neighbour, that poor widow, those little kids, our friends, brothers and sisters. For they were hungry you feed them, naked you clothed them, sick or in prison, u visited them.
You can visit those organizations (orphanage homes, good Samaritans homes or motherless baby homes) or donate to charity societies within the church to assist the poor. An act of goodwill no matter how small goes a long way.

Heb. 13:2, "do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained Angels unawares".
Luke 11: 41 “rather give as alms what is inside and then everything will be clean for u”. The outward & inward giving of alms places d primary focus on the motive behind it which is LOVE.
Remember the seven (7) corporal works of mercy
1. To feed the hungry
2. To cloth the naked
3. To give drink to the thirsty
4. To visit the sick
5. To shelter the homeless
6. To visit the imprisoned
7. To bury the dead
Also the spiritual works of mercy
1. To counsel the doubtful
2. To comfort the sorrowful
3. To instruct the ignorant
4. To admonish the sinner
5. To heal all injuries
6. To bear wrongs patiently
7. To pray for the living and the dead

Many poor people are too timid or naive to approach potential Alms-giver or charity home. On the other hand under serving mendicants and professional beggars easily extort aids which are primarily not meant for them. This is why the bible admonished the Christian fold to consider the needy around them, church members, family members friends and those alike. For at the last day we shall all be accountable for our deeds.

Remember "It is more blessed to give than to receive" and also "givers never lack". You don't have to own a vault for you to give, even a smile and a valuable time shared with the poor and needy is an act of charity.

~~Our lady Handmaid of the Lord Presidium~~
#Oluchi Sunday
#Ogar D'Genius Sunday

She wrote:
"I am proud of us...
On 17th February, 2005, my husband brought her home as my house help. She was smaller than l wanted. I needed a much bigger girl, but the mum could only allow her as the elder sister was elsewhere. The only option was to manage her, but managing meant that l had to nurse her as she was too small to even wash her own clothes, the breakable kitchenwares etc.

It wasn't also easy to raise a child with certain orientations.

But l tried. When the task became too tedious,

I packaged her home, but the father gave us a mind boggling question: if she is your daughter, will you throw her away? Please, train her as yours. I want her different.

As stunning as that question sounded, l thank God that l took that challenge seriously and to my heart.
I teach, I scream, I plead, l appeal and l advice...
To make sure she turns out better than she would.
Sometimes, she makes me furious, laugh, cry, and proud, just like now.

From Primary 2, she had gone through to secondary, made her papers, have trained on computer literacy before going for skill acquisition.


Today, she has moved to a higher level. She is matriculating at Alvan Ikoku Federal College of Education, and l am so happy that our 13 years together is not a waste after all.

She has long ceased to be a maid in my home.

She is now Aunty's Auntie, my little sister, my children's Auntie. And no one knows she is not my sibling.

Uchechi, today is the beginning of a new life for you.

We are happy for you. Sky is your jumping pad.

We pray that you graduate with flying colours. And we continue to pray for financial breakthrough so that you do not suffer any stress concerning your education.

Congratulations, dear. We are super proud of you."

Solomon Island

By Ogar Solomon Ogar aka Solomon Island


Dear Wives,

I bring you good tidings today being the first Sunday of the month of April, 2019. I hope you are all doing wonderfully well in your various homes. Please kindly permit me to share with you some marital tips.

∆√Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

∆√Don't expose his weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.

∆√You are each other's keeper so don't use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband. You never know how he will interpret them. Remember, defensive women don't have a happy home.

∆√Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his ego, his Love for you will diminish.

∆√ Don't ill treat his friends because you don't like them. The person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband, not you.

∆√Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties and don't assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

∆√Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

∆√ Don't be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

∆√Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty (even the anointed ones).

∆√ Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

∆√Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

This is my 10k #LifeCollege marital tips. Please take the message seriously and leave the messenger. Thank you as you do so. God bless you and happy Sunday!

My name is Ogar Solomon Ogar

The man that developed WhatsApp worked in Yahoo, later left, and went to Twitter for job, they rejected him, he later developed WhatsApp and sold it for $19b.

In 1997 after Google was set up, they approached the C.E.O of Yahoo to buy Google for $1 million because they were not making profit.

Yahoo Inc. refused to buy stating that it is a bad investment to buy Google for $1 million.6 years later in 2002, Yahoo tried to purchase Google for $3 billion but the founders of Google refused to sell because they were already making progress.

Read Also: Don't lose a diamond while gathering stone..

In 2014, Google is worth $395 billion while Yahoo is worth $39 billion-roughly 10% of Google's worth.

Can you imagine what could have happened if Yahoo had bought Google for $1 million in 1997? Or if they had bought it for $3 billion in 2002?

Moral Lesson:
In the beginning, things might seem to be difficult, but do not despise your little beginnings.

You may face rejections but do not despair. You may be belittled, but don't undervalue yourself. Don't settle for less!

Don't sell yourself Less than your worth!
You may be potentially worth more than your buyer!

Sometimes our greatest problem is not our weakness but the strength we have not discovered.

No matter your current challenge, don't shortchange yourself for less. Even this will pass away.

Trouble will always pass away. Am here to tell you that your problem is not real. What is real is that you are worth more than you are currently being valued .

The fact that you have some imperfection doesn't mean your are less valuable.

A day is coming soon when those you ran to for help but refuse will come into your Light and even benefit from the you that they discarded sometimes back.

No verdict on your Life is final except the one God pronounce on you.

I am already seeing You & I at the top.”

By Francis Finian Offionor

If you are looking for someone just because you feel lonely, they will sense that.
If we are looking for someone just because all of our friends are in relationships, they will feel that.

If we are looking for someone just because we are desperate, they will heal that.
You will find love when you are ready, not when you are lonely.

You can't find someone before finding yourself, in other words, you never find the right person before becoming the right person. And instead of trying to be with someone who makes you happy, we need to be with someone who makes us happy.

If you chose to love yourself first, put yourself first, you will never feel lonely again. It's the most important relationship you need to make time for.

We have multiple meetings per day but we forget the most important one, and that's the meeting with ourselves.

We are so busy trying to build so many other relationships but we often forget the most important one, a relationship with ourselves.
Sometimes we have to be alone to find our worth.

When we have that time, that energy, that space, we are able to learn about ourselves quicker, faster and more effectively.

The truth is, when we find someone in our loneliness, we often attract emptiness.

READ LIFE COLLEGE 2: THE GRASS IS GREENER WHERE YOU WATER IT: https://www.theeaglesvoice.com/2019/03/life-colloge-by-fff-grass-is-greener.html

The biggest mistake we can make is that, we allow loneliness to drive us back to someone that we no longer belong with.

We start hoping and trying to create an engineer and manufacture something as if it were some kind of a machine.

But the truth is, true love, real lof will be organic and naturally flows.
Time alone gives you the opportunity to fund your worth.

Time alone gives you a moment to redefine your values.

If we don't know what we value, it's hard to find someone who can value the same things...

Don't be afraid of being alone. Use that time to fuel your passion. Use that time to build up an authentic connection with who you are and where you want to go.

And the common mistake i, people thinking being alone makes you lonely, but the truth is, being sorrounded by the wrong people can be the loneliest thing in the world.....

#LifeOfAnAssociateBachelor

FFF

By Francis Finian Offionor FFF -28th March, 2019

THE GRASS IS GREENER WHERE YOU WATER IT...

In the hope for money,
In the hope for success,
We end up chasing the wrong things and we make a mess.

We end up with less than we started with.
We end up with more issues than we bargained for. Whilst climbing in the ladder and that stairway, we forget why we started climbing in the first place..

In the process of getting older, we forget the real goals of life. If you could make a little less and spend more time doing what you love, would that make you happier?..

READ ALSO: LIFE COLLEGE 1; IS OF THE ESSENCE: https://www.theeaglesvoice.com/2019/03/life-college-time-is-of-essence-by.html
Don't trade your happiness for what you need.
Things can never make us happy because they are temporary and limited. But experiences can last forever.

Too many people are working hard on things they don't love, to spend money they don't have, to buy things they don't need, to impress people they don't like.

When we create our identity around what we do...
A career, a job and an occupation, we can never be happy because we are basing it on something external....

But when we create an identity around who we are and what we want to be and become, then anything is possible.

And remember, we become successful by what we get, but we become happy by what we give.

Don't get the two confused...

#LifeOfanAssociateBachelor

Francis Finian Offionor (FFF)

By FFF

REMEMBER, TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE.

Don't be with someone just because you feel alone for a period of time.

Don't just be with someone to fill your gaps.
Imagine what that will feel like if someone did that to you.

And don't talk to someone just because they make you feel better about yourself for little bit of time, but you don't feel the same way.

And remember, someone disappearing doesn't affect your worth, it reflects their priorities.

When someone disappears, don't let them reappear just because they feel like it.

And if you have ever been ghosted, just remember, it's better they did it now rather than later on.

In the process of seeking happiness externally, we make a complete mess of our minds and life and sometimes even the lives of others, not realizing that, what we were truly looking for has always been with us.

Today we hear a lot about self-love and self-care, but neither of these are possible without self-knowledge, without self-realization without self-awareness.

Remember, if we don't know ourselves, we can't love ourselves.

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