LIFE COLLEGE: DON'T LOSE A DIAMOND WHILE GATHERING STONES ~ FFF

By Francis Finian Offionor

If you are looking for someone just because you feel lonely, they will sense that.
If we are looking for someone just because all of our friends are in relationships, they will feel that.

If we are looking for someone just because we are desperate, they will heal that.
You will find love when you are ready, not when you are lonely.

You can't find someone before finding yourself, in other words, you never find the right person before becoming the right person. And instead of trying to be with someone who makes you happy, we need to be with someone who makes us happy.

If you chose to love yourself first, put yourself first, you will never feel lonely again. It's the most important relationship you need to make time for.

We have multiple meetings per day but we forget the most important one, and that's the meeting with ourselves.

We are so busy trying to build so many other relationships but we often forget the most important one, a relationship with ourselves.
Sometimes we have to be alone to find our worth.

When we have that time, that energy, that space, we are able to learn about ourselves quicker, faster and more effectively.

The truth is, when we find someone in our loneliness, we often attract emptiness.

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The biggest mistake we can make is that, we allow loneliness to drive us back to someone that we no longer belong with.

We start hoping and trying to create an engineer and manufacture something as if it were some kind of a machine.

But the truth is, true love, real lof will be organic and naturally flows.
Time alone gives you the opportunity to fund your worth.

Time alone gives you a moment to redefine your values.

If we don't know what we value, it's hard to find someone who can value the same things...

Don't be afraid of being alone. Use that time to fuel your passion. Use that time to build up an authentic connection with who you are and where you want to go.

And the common mistake i, people thinking being alone makes you lonely, but the truth is, being sorrounded by the wrong people can be the loneliest thing in the world.....

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